I constantly compare myself to other people. It's true. In almost everything I do, I compare myself to the people around me. As a result I judge myself quite a bit. I know that's kind of shocking coming from a guy who wrote a blog titled, I'm Better Than You . But it's still true.
I compare myself to others because at times I'm not overly confident in myself.
He's a better handyman than I am.
That blog is better than mine.
I'll never be the Youth Pastor that he is.
We'll never be able to afford what they can.
I constantly check my stats for this blog.Seriously. How many people are reading it at 2:37pm??? How long are they staying on the site? I actually compare my stats verses my wife's blog. As of this writing my blog has gotten roughly 1200 page views. Roughly 600 of them this month. Mollie's blog has gotten almost 3000.
I'm not as good of a blogger as my wife. (you can increase her stats by going to jonandmollie.blogspot.com.)
My constant stat checking and comparison making drives Mollie nuts. And it should because it's not overly healthy.
Constantly playing the comparison game is never healthy.
I mean sometimes it can be helpful. "Hmm In comparing my wardrobe to the people around me, I notice that no one else is wearing their bathrobes at Panera. I also notice the manager coming to talk to me. "
But using the comparison game to belittle yourself is not healthy at all.
Why you ask?
When I belittle myself by comparing my life to others I'm essentially belittling who God created me to be.
I tell my students all the time that they are created in God's image and that's all that matters. We were created in a way that God can use us to His glory.
God didn't want me as a handyman. It's fairly obvious. Whenever I try to fix something I break it more. I'm really good at breaking stuff. Maybe I could have side job in destruction.
I'm the youth pastor that God created me to be, reaching the kids that God wants me to reach. I need to be perfectly ok with that.
There are a lot of blogs that are better than mine. Despite the fact that I want mine to be a source of income (hence the ads), my blog might not ever make money. But it sometimes helps people. I might never reach 90,000 pageviews a day like some blogs, but if something I write helps just one person, I should be overly excited by that. (and I am).
I find that I need to be more satisfied in who God created me to be. After all, God is perfect and I am not.
What about you?
Do you find yourself constantly playing the Comparison Game?
Do you often wish that you were someone else?
Take this truth and never forget it. God created you in His image. And there is nothing better than that. You might not be everything that you want to be in your mind, but you are God's and that is the greatest truth you could ever know.
Take comfort and knowing that God created you. Take comfort in knowing that you are created in His image.
Take a minute relish that thought.
Let's give up the Comparison Game and never look back.